Hmmm...hmmm...need I say more? But..since this is my blog I guess I will...
I was telling a gentleman about how people would ask me if I ever get upset when I don't get my way even when I try to play it cool. And my response was "Fuck yeah! I do! But I try not to let that bother me because that'll drive me nuts!"
With that this particular gentleman threw his head back and laughed and then he told me that nobody else could say fuck and make it sound so cute. I was very amused and pleased. To an eavesdropper the conversatoin may seem a bit crude. I mean it's not every day and in every conversation that one throws around the word "fuck" and then have someone say it's cute. I have to admit that was the first time during my interaction with this particular gentleman that I had used the word. And I felt that he would understand the context that I meant it in. And much to my amusement, he found it quite delightful...dare I say even charming? Oh how this girl flatters herself so! lol
This goes back to an earlier post where I had asked why it is that we let some people get away with saying or doing certain things but would be appalled or repulsed if someone else did the same thing. My reasoning is that we just simply like people more than others, but it doesn't quite stop there yet...I believe that sometimes there's an underlying connection that exists between two people in order for them to share and indulge in certain things with each other that they would never even dream of sharing with just anyone else. I know for a fact that this happens! Because we're all biased s.o.bs and give preferences and play favorites! I know that! Because I've been guilty of this myself!! And you know what? That's okay! I'm telling you that it's okay to let a particular someone get away with what you normally wouldn't let others get away with! Why? Because that action in itself, lets you know that you see that person as the exception to the rule.
Everyone likes to be the exception to the rule, and I"m no exception...
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Of course! It's the same with boyfriends... I had one who played guitar all the time and I thought it was corny... two boys later, a "musician" wrote me a song, I almost melted...
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